so ive been doing my research lately on our middle-life problems and just found the most practical way clear up all problem in society,highly
the problem is gender issues affecting our society.women are amazing creatures and deserve every kind of respect but these days men focus more on what we want from them;how much they should submit to us; kind of mothers they should be or mental state they must have;which is always expected to be high and there is nothing wrong with that. What wrong is that we forget to be the kind of men these qualities entail, what they need in us to reflect that kind of energy?
Males never work on being the type of sons, brothers or partner’s females would die for.
‘’I want a respecting women’’, says a man who knows nothing about respect.
‘’i will never wife a drunkard it better if I’m the only one drinking’’
now for a rest of her life a poor woman will have to carry a load of insanity you can barely lift, We always drain so much energy from them and use it to other useless things instead of reflecting back to them.
We always feeling like our sisters should cook for us while we playing soccer outside, mothers should pay for our intuitions while we fail frequently but never do anything, not to pay back but to show understanding and appreciated of the effort because to women gratitude are everything.
The problem is our bad entitlement boldness on respect; power, to be prioritized every time. We think everything revolve around us
‘’She walks like that for us to look‘’
Maybe we should question their entitlement, why should I be given so much? in nowadays men feel so entitled to women numbers and attention if they don’t give one, then that is disrespect and raw arrogance but never genuinely take a look at effort and the merit of approach they are putting in, perhaps you didn’t use that much charismatic manner of communication and with methods it always up to your skills.
Likewise, the society as a whole put so much pressure on their existence and always judgmental of their action, it only fair we don’t act stunned if one commit suicide.
Men should try introspection. we should respect women daily,and be able to look into ourselves and spot mistakes to be good at being responsible by that way we will also be more conscious of what is significant in our lives, women. Try to create the kind of energy we expect from them and reflect much appreciation.
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