if i were an opposite sex,i would wish i was an opposite sex. we the people are separated into binary groups, males and females which are different not only in sexuality but also expectations turned out by society.Those expectation further deviate human behavior and what others call privileges, making one foolishly wish was an opposite for luxury of these privileges. But honestly no men nor women are in luxury of anything and here's why i say so...
First, let look at women, women are exposed to all forms of discrimination at atmost. In all fields of the society they have been victims of being treated like sexual entities; being denied fair chances ;constantly being thrusted with judgement and demanded perfection;vicious exploitation and scary cover stories we've been seeing of arson,human trafficking and domestic violence
with all other system of society harassing greater good of women, the patriarchy system serves the most measures. with it provision on society arrangement injustice can be seen in emphasis of power exercising, all that energy absorbed create depression,suppress their self-esteem and defusing greater good capability of women
Although there are structures trying to bridge the gab of gender inequality especially in work place but to some women it almost feel like they are being over-treasured rather than being deserving of most occupation.So basically, being are women sounds devastating and depressing with emotional screws
With all that chaos going on some women wish they were, like Beyonce who has a song singing how overbearing she would have been if she was a boy,shame Beyonce!. good people, being a man is hard, even though somehow the pressure is comparable between genders but men endure the worst. We as men are presented as superhuman, we dont get hurt and when we do we dont cry,ending up with bottled emotions which always lashes out as a balloon of aggressiveness and anger affecting our mental health and lives of people around us.
The tendency of being also unfairly treated stretched in the birth of feminism, which gave all credit of humanity to women and left us out,for an example a case of man violence is held rather facetiously compare to women violence, If you'are jobless man with no releasable funds,shame! the world is hard rock for you, we dont get to be respected as a human being.
On mount of that emotional downfall they expect you to have a six pack; tall and other difficult qualities to range on, like, how i am going to be muscular and tall at the same time?
meticulous overview reflect no better side of femininity and masculinity, so even if i get a chance to be woman, in matters of time i would wish i was a man again.
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