What happened to our standard way of approach? Now we have stupid way to have the work done. Numerous reality shows came in the way and ruined everything. Take Me Out, Date My Family, Yang’thanda na and then now we have thee campus crush taking over with episodes over 100k views on YouTube. Episode after episode, season after season people are coming in floods; these shows are growing in large records.
Why men are so much into these ‘’entertainment schemes’’? It like all of a sudden we are too sensitive and terrified to have a simple, private dialogue with a woman and talk things through instead you letting the world into your business.
The crushing subject has been converted to an entertainment set-up, it fun no. honestly speaking, there’s nothing entertaining, and it a real situation which bring a weaker side in you and could potentially mess up your mental well-being if it got the best of you. I remember in high school years getting out of the friend zone use to be hard as studying Calculus. we didn’t have these newly emerged schemes to help us out, it would be only your friends helping you with confidence, borrowing nicer tie, spray you or buy you a smothies just for you to say “I think I will do it tomorrow’’.it was hard, but it was a great experience; the kind of experience we now share to laugh.
private dialogue was the pure norm, that what was expected from a man .third hand only came as a power move to do touch ups not to do the whole thing for you, just uncalled for
no more listening to every Drake song just to get the best lines to beg for love; buy tons of chocolate and get ‘’thank you, you so sweet’’ but not the actual answer; eventually you will join dance classes she’s taking just to see her more often. Before you know it, you will be one of the best dancers, all in the name of love but we now......
We slowly drifting to a lifestyle less interesting; where everything is damaging us as a naïve generation.
Surely those match made on these ‘’schemes’’ don’t last a week if not two. Because they don’t genuinely work on creating an actual connection between participants as one may think, which is a big thump down as a solid communication is an important element when building a relationship, especially at the kick start because it gives you a clear understanding of what you getting yourself into and give you time, leaving no room for regrets.
‘’Presenters are doing nothing but constantly shoving pressure to you to respond before the camera man gets hungry or because people want the full story. In fact they don’t care about you, they just want your story ’’ echoes anger from the past participant
Moreover people who are rejected in these episodes don’t even receive a sort of a small therapy as one may suffer from mental breakdown, humiliation, depression and agoraphobia which according to the research have great contribution in committing suicide
The damage done by participating in these shows can extend to wound your standing, imagine being always referred to a guy who got rejected and get more rejections for a video which will be around as long as YouTube exist.
So if you really crushing someone these shows are not the best option and the definite strategy to help you out in building your ideal relationship. But if you decide to go there, make sure you win or else…
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